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Week 23 of 36

Writing One's Voice

ICF competency anchor: Embodies a Coaching Mindset — Marker 2.6 at MCC depth

90 min

This week

Some Level 3 graduates will write — articles, blog posts, eventually books. The lineage continues partly through written transmission. Writing is the discipline of finding what only you can say, in the way only you can say it, while remaining within the integrity of the lineage. This week is about beginning that practice — even if you are not yet a writer.

Contemplative practice of the week

The Voice Practice

Twenty minutes daily. Sit. Then write for fifteen minutes, longhand, without stopping or editing, on a single prompt issued at the beginning of the practice. The prompts rotate: 'What I know about coaching that I have never told anyone…' / 'The thing about ROUSER (or ICEF, or ITM) that became real for me only after years…' / 'What the lineage has asked of me that I have struggled with…' / 'The client who changed how I see the work…' Don't write to be read. Write to find what's there. Over time, the voice that consistently appears in this writing is your authentic voice. Master writers have done this practice for years before they wrote anything published.

Learning objectives

  • Identify your authentic voice as a writer (it differs from your speaking voice).
  • Practice writing about a piece of the lineage's work in your own voice.
  • Receive cohort feedback on the authenticity of your voice in writing.
  • Develop a regular writing practice if you are drawn to written contribution.
  • Distinguish between writing as performance (which is what the early writer often does) and writing as transmission (which is what the master writer does).

Session architecture

  • Hour 1 — Voice as discovered, not constructed. Lead Instructor teaches the difference between writing-as-performance and writing-as-transmission. Voice is the discovery, not the construction.
  • Hour 2 — The writing practicum. Students take 45 minutes to write about one piece of their own coaching work — a recent breakthrough, a difficult case, an insight from this Level 3 work. The writing is in their own voice, not in any imitation of an existing writer's style.
  • Hour 3 — Voice circle. Each student reads their piece aloud. The cohort listens for the moments where the writer's actual voice is present versus where it has slipped into someone else's voice. Faculty offers reflective input.
  • Hour 4 — The discipline of regular writing. A teaching on what a sustainable writing practice looks like for the master coach who writes. Specific protocols. The lineage's existing writers and how they write.

Reading

  • Selected reading on the writer-practitioner tradition — Thich Nhat Hanh, Pema Chödrön, Cynthia Bourgeault, Adyashanti
  • Anne Lamott — Bird by Bird (selected chapters)
  • Natalie Goldberg — Writing Down the Bones
  • The Transpersonal Leader — the section on writing as lineage contribution

Lineages at work

Transpersonal (anchor) — writing as lineage contribution · Contemplative — the writer-practitioner tradition (Thich Nhat Hanh, Pema Chödrön, Cynthia Bourgeault) · Coaching — written contribution to the field

Milestone

500-word piece written in personal voice. The Voice Practice daily writing initiated. Cohort feedback on voice received. Personal writing practice articulated (frequency, scope, location). Decision made on whether written contribution is part of one's lineage stewardship.

Reflection prompt

When I read what I wrote this week, is it in my actual voice? Or is it borrowed? How can I tell? What does the lineage need that only my voice can write? What is my hesitation around writing? What is my readiness?